I can talk the talk and sometimes I can even walk the walk but man'o'man, it is hard to be cool in the face of someone else's intense emotion. But sometimes the kindest thing you can do for someone is to be brutally (but in a sweet way) honest. Actually, it isn't all that hard to do, especially if you don't have any expectations that it will change anything. But, when there is a night-light flickering on and just disturbing the pineal gland enough to raise conciousness, it can be such sweetness. Oh, that wacky 'third eye'...you've got to love it.