Big Mouth/Small Voice
I have a dilemma. I have been told, on occasion that I have a big mouth. I have also been told that my voice doesn't carry. Huh?
Sometimes I give voice to my opinion in an attempt at being honest and in an attempt to bring about a change. A change I perceive as necessary but more importantly, as possible. I get on roll with something and can NOT, not say anything. I really try to be diplomatic. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, as that is not my style and is never, ever my intention. I am doomed to the endless adolescent pursuit of being 'liked' over and above the nobler pursuits of adulthood. But it is frustrating when you can't get someone to see the brilliance ( oui, mes amis, being funny here) of the argument or the clarity of the point.
What is up with not being able to change the world? I know, I know... blah, blah, blah... one step at a time...be the change that you want to see....and all the rest of those inspirational homilies, but precisely when, should one just shut up? Sometimes, kindness itself, just doesn't seem to be enough and then... small voice comes out of big mouth from soft heart?
I have a dilemma. I have been told, on occasion that I have a big mouth. I have also been told that my voice doesn't carry. Huh?
Sometimes I give voice to my opinion in an attempt at being honest and in an attempt to bring about a change. A change I perceive as necessary but more importantly, as possible. I get on roll with something and can NOT, not say anything. I really try to be diplomatic. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, as that is not my style and is never, ever my intention. I am doomed to the endless adolescent pursuit of being 'liked' over and above the nobler pursuits of adulthood. But it is frustrating when you can't get someone to see the brilliance ( oui, mes amis, being funny here) of the argument or the clarity of the point.
What is up with not being able to change the world? I know, I know... blah, blah, blah... one step at a time...be the change that you want to see....and all the rest of those inspirational homilies, but precisely when, should one just shut up? Sometimes, kindness itself, just doesn't seem to be enough and then... small voice comes out of big mouth from soft heart?
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"Sometimes I give voice to my opinion in an attempt at being honest and in an attempt to bring about a change. A change I perceive as necessary but more importantly, as possible."
I didn't know you had any problem attempting to bring about a change in MY behavior,etc. Yes, I was almost anal about cleaning up my spew in the hovel. Then I had to work for hours ironing my hair so my appearance would please you. You did show me that change was possible!?!?! Maybe not necessary, but improved of course, with your gentle guidance. Or should I say harassment. . . .
Hey, I love you babe!!
XOXO
Hey- truth hurts.
Sometimes I don't waste my breath, but other times I feel it's a must; my duty, to at least TRY to inspire the "needed" change.
Why not bother? As my grandmother always said (in her Scottish burr) "Force a man against his will, and he's of that opinion still."
On the receiving side, I have a few close friends who like to constantly dish out the harsh realities of my "life failures" when need be. I hear it and take what I want from it. They can be tactless about it sometimes, but like I said, "truth hurts".
And I'd hate to be wearing the Emperor's new clothes.
Big mouths are the ones that get heard! I don't really need a ton of people to co-sign on my BS, even though that's mighty comfortable. I'd rather have a difference of opinions from time to time to keep my "brilliance" in check ;)
Thanks for being you!
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